Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Bestbuddies... in my opinion

I am not really a big fan of this new Bestbuddies setup at the pad. And let me tell you my reasons why I don't think this is such a good idea. First, two Fratmen sharing one cam for four hours in a remote location can only do so much, especially when they are confined to a small environment where they cannot do what they normally do at the pad. Like go to the pool, lounge outside etc. Second, because the Fratmen are doing their shows together, a lot of members are expecting them to do more than they usually do when they are doing shows by themselves. This put more pressure to the Fratmen to do something that results in something that is unspontaneous and seemed kinda forced. And then, there are the fans of the individual Fratmen who are not happy because their favorite Fratmen is constantly sharing the cam with his "Best Bud". Anyway, I am just one member and this is just my two cents. But, all of our "two cents" when put together can be something more stronger and valuable. That's why there is a new poll on the blog. We want to know what your opinion is about the "Bestbuddies" system. So, head on to the sidebar, cast your vote and let your voice be heard.

19 comments:

howdy said...

GONG YOUR OPINION CHACO!!! LOL

I LOVE BEST BUDDIES! LOL!

hunkboy said...

I wish I could still see Taylor :( My membership expired :( Tell everyone at the pad and members Hi for me please. I miss everyone dearly!!

richman said...

I hear you, pochaco!
I support Taylor in whatever he does, but stilll...

Anonymous said...

I like the fratmen but i have to agree some of it seems forced and they are really not into but doing it because they was told to. I would like it to be more spontanios and want to do this on there own. And they seem like they are looking for things to do, just to keep us entertained, so some of it just seems fake.

Prof. FigoFan said...

I agree with pochaco. Those of you that enjoy it, have fun. I'm outta here....

John1964 said...

I'll support Taylor as well whatever decision is made, but I can understand where each is coming from. Maybe one shift can be best buddies and one shift can be 1 fratmen... this way he can satisfy both needs that are addressed. I guess you can say I am on the fence on this one lol

Prof. FigoFan said...
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Prof. FigoFan said...

I don't pay $20 for extremely limited access and getting ignored, thank you. Not after weeks of mind games about the new season.

Anonymous said...

I couldn't agree with Pochaco more. I think that the idea of "best buddies" is good in theory. Often some of the most memorable times at the pad are a result of the chemistry between the guys. Shay and Jayden stretching, Max and Taylor being stupid, Jayden and Grady bathtimes, Chase and Spencer dancing, these are all good relationships with a real connection between the guys, and that spontaneous flow is what makes it so special. The "best buddies" system, or at least what we have seen so far, throws together guys who do not seem to have an organic bond and the whole experience seems kind of forced, as I have never seen either of these Fratmen struggle to come up with great shows solo. I also think that the system stifles the intimacy that the guys have on their own, and I have a hard time imagining T-Smooth making an appearance or Jayden playing with Mr. Purple with their "best buddy" sitting on the bed. It's as if all the time the guys took to get comfortable with themselves and the members vanishes and their old "tough, silly straight guy" comes out, which we like sometimes, but not all the time. Again, I agree with Pochaco that we need to see how this pans out, but as of now, I am strongly opposed to best buddies for more than one week.

Disney said...

Pochaco,

I must say that I agree with you as well. The one thing that I have always hated at the pad is having two guys share one cam. I also think it is very hard to interact during this format. The pad for me is a place to hang with the guys you like see and the members as well. It is too hard with two people on at once.

I really dont care to see the guys go further or do more with each other. This site is so much more than that. I can watch that sort of thing on many other sites. Sure the occasional DUO's are great but after watching several shifts now of the "Best Buddies" format, I am inclined to say I dont care for it.

Taylor, I love you very much and want to support you in all you do. I know this is new and hopefully we can all be happy if things can be tweaked a bit.

As for the whole Season issue, I know the PAD thrives on drama but this for me adds nothing to the experience. I dont know why we even need seasons. I mean the guys come and go all the time anyway so I just dont see the need. Just my two cents.

Love you very much Taylor!!

pshaneb12 said...

well in my opinion this whole buddy thing is whack. taylor man i love ya, casey i havent seen enough of you to form an opinion. its my thought that if you are going to call it best buddies the guys should be at least buddies. you guys make it look like its being forced on you or something. maybe it should be making best buddies or something because this isnt working for me. sorry if offended but that my opinion.

adi wira said...

i only confused lol

TNbuttman said...

They say opinions are like assholes, so that must make me an expert ;-)

I have to agree with pochaco on this one. I realize the buddies are making the best of it, but it all seems so contrived and awkward (the little that I've seen of it — broadcast too late for this sleepyhead).

I feel sorry for them both. They seem like animals trapped in a glass cage, asked to perform for the glaring public. (Now I understand why monkeys like to fling feces!)

Anonymous said...

I noticed some loyal fans may not get so much attention from their favorite fratmen now since the chat room is so crowded. And I agree fratmen should have their own cam time besides best buddies. But overall I like the ideas of best buddies. I'm sure Fratmen will not do anything if they really hate it. After all it's still business. It surely stirs things up. And I think it will benefit fratpad in the long run.

Jason said...

The Best Buddies idea is great, it's always nice to see new guys come into the mix with regulars, because who knows what can happen. Obviously it could go bad but it could also become a great thing. However, I am unsure if I like the idea in practice. Especially if we are doing shows at places that don't have good reception, or if the guys really aren't best buds but are just being called that by john and leo. Like Taylor and Casey did get along great at the pad but they only were there for two weeks. So I think this concept should have been tried out with someone who has a stronger bond with a guy at the pad. Also, casey has not shown to me anyway how comftorable he is with being on cam with another guy, like yeah i heard he did those body shots and stuff, but I don't know if he wanted to do that or felt like he had to because of the chat members.

JustJayJ. said...

pochaco, will u be my Best Buddy for Season Five?? :)

BronkoBoi said...

WELL, EACH COMMENT HAS A RING OF VALIDITY. I LIKE ALL THE FRATMEN AND THE PAD. I THINK IT IS WAY TOO EARLY TO MAKE A FINAL DECISION ON THE BEST BUDDIES IDEA, BUT PROBABLY A LITTLE MORE PLANNING SHOULD BE DONE SO EVERYONE IS COOL WITH THE IDEA. GOOD LUCK JOHN AND LEO

4of14 said...

Okay, this is my dream as I wrote about it to Taylor. With a few minor changes, but this is it. Inspired by Jay and Grady in their duo. I love this format, though I can see a time in the future, if this flies, when they will be able to move around more. Men being close to each other is beautiful, but when you add too many guys it become a contest to see who can out do the other. Taylor and Casey are just two guys exploring what it mean to take care of a buddy. This idea, this need has been lost in a world that values money, power and the I me mine values all around us. Yes this display takes money, but it's being used in a way that helps men see what they can have with another guy, if that's what we as men want.
That pendulum is swing back gentlemen, it's time to be men in love again.

popperdude said...

I don't mind Best Buddies at all - in fact I think it's a fun idea. However I do agree with what Taylor said about it being too much to be on for 4 hours with another Fratmen. I like the idea of them trading off shifts and then coming together (no pun intended) for a shift or two. But you have to admit that when two are on the chatroom becomes a bit hectic and it's very hard to get a word in edgewise - which then leads to some members feeling ignored which I can understand as well. At any rate I'm sure the powers that be will work it out and Season 5 will be fun. Cheers!